‘i Don’t Think It’s A New Thing, Women Watching Or Becoming Addicted To Porn’

Like people tend to hang out together and talk to each other. I guess I have always been around decent ordinary people. I'm sure there is a seamy subset of society that almost certainly thinks differently. And in a few cases, the women do in fact enjoy it, particularly if it's a male actor they appreciate, and sometimes they have real orgasms. The problem is, time is money, and lots of people are milling around on the set and everybody wants to go to lunch, etc. Well, by and large you're right with regard to the women, and also the men to some degree. But it can vary quite a bit, as frank accounts by porn actors and actresses would tell you.

They go straight to the genre THEY want to see, period. So what you don't seem to understand is that porn is made for the categories that the websites record are popular.

The X Hamster report noted that the top search term for women in the United States was "Daddy", while the top search term globally was "Mom". For instance, the number one search in 2017 on Pornhub was "Porn for Women" , while the website noted a 359 per cent growth among female users between 2016 and 2017. Chris, who also declined to share her last name for the same reason as Anjelika, said she consumes gay male erotica and is turned off by straight porn. Anjelika also said some of the videos that pop up in the straight section of porn sites rub her the wrong way. “The naughty component is very important, and I find two attractive men having sex to be a very beautiful thing,” she explained.

Compared to men, women are more likely to look at the Cunnilingus (306%), Lesbian (144%), and Romantic (134%) categories. McGrath also advises women who've decided against porn very quickly to give it some more consideration. "Any kind of imagery has the ability to stimulate, to titillate, to make us repulsed," she say, "but if we don't interact with it and don't see it, there are just so many things we might miss." Some women may never find porn that does it for them.

There's always been a misconception about porn, that men like it better than women. While porn to watch sure, only 30% of xHamster's audience is women, that's still 30%. And while men generally view porn as disposable content, women are younger and taking a more cultured approach to the medium. This is a more gender-diverse group of consumer, tuned to the social aspect of porn as much as the base quick-fix erotic nature of it. Since it's Valentine's Day, that storied Hallmark holiday that demands your attention and affection through a series of cliche gifts and actions, xHamster decided to take a deeper dive into its audience of women. Nearly 30% of xHamster's global porn viewing audience is women, which shouldn't come as much of a surprise here in the 21st century. Getty xHamster, the porn site that also exists, recently completed a survey of 100,000 unique site visitors.

But could 5 percent of women account for 30 percent of the porn audience? University of Connecticut researchers showed college students three conventional porn videos and three from Femme. Almost all the women felt repulsed by the standard porn, but enjoyed the Femme videos—and were more likely to twist the sheets after viewing them. At the University of Amsterdam, Dutch scientists showed 47 women standard porn or a Femme video. The former repelled them, but the latter aroused them. “It’s tricky trying to handle your recovery as sex is everywhere and the triggers are everywhere,” observes Garza.

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43% of senior pastors and youth pastors say they have struggled with pornography in the past. In a similar vein, only 54% would discuss their porn habits with their friends, and over half would actually be embarrassed if their friends knew they watched porn at all.

I don't see where she claims to speak for everyone, or even all women. She clearly speaks from personal experience which she not only has a right to do, but which is 100% valid and far more persuasive than your attack on her. She isn't addressing you or your porn use at all so I fail to see why felt the need to correct her.

That's okay too, but they'll never know if they don't give it an honest, open-minded try. Bellesa – Erotica with an emphasis on female pleasure. If you’re a long-time porn user, this site will keep youverybusy. So, if you are female and you are using porn, it has got to stop. If you want to be present with your husband and truly experience love with him, you are going to have to stop the porn.